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Commentary

March 24, 2014
The McGill Daily | www.mcgilldaily.com

When Tinder fails to spark
Dating apps, advertising, and unsafe spaces
Lily Chapnik
Commentary Writer

T

he messages appear in a few
places around McGill’s campus, peppy but not overstated.
Scrawled around the mirrors in
bathrooms, in neon pink marker,
are hashtags endorsing the popular
networking app Tinder, urging the
viewer to #takeaselfie. The bottom
of each mirror features the ubiquitous tear-drop flame that serves as
the company’s logo.
While this is a creative technique for spreading the word about
a service pertinent to many members of the student population, the
fact remains that the message propagated is one that imposes an inappropriately normative view of sexuality upon the student population.
The numbers show that as a service and a company, Tinder must be
doing something right. It boasts over
one billion matches, mostly among
young millennials hoping to ‘swipe
right’ on their smartphone screens
to find social and romantic connections. In an email to The Daily, Justin Mateen, Tinder’s co-founder and
Chief Marketing Officer, enthusiastically claimed, “Our goal is to make
the process of meeting people more
efficient, whether it be in the context of friendship, dating, or even
business.” He followed this with the

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slightly enigmatic claim that, “As the
product evolves it will move in the
direction of social discovery in general,” thus expressing his desire for
the type of communication Tinder
champions – quick, instinctive, and
perfunctory – to become normative.
The product that Tinder offers
is not under fire here. While its modus operandi may be based on a superficial judgment of attraction, its
high number of users and ratings
show that the company is meeting a demand for such a service.
It is their methods of advertising
on campuses that are contentious,
and they should be reconsidered if
they are to appeal to students in a
respectful manner.
The most troubling issue with
Tinder’s campaign on McGill’s campus is that when a person looks into
a mirror that features the campaign,
their face is framed by the words
endorsing the product, and they
become an unwitting mascot for
Tinder. Regardless of whether this
person uses the app, or even knows
what it entails, the image of their
face within the frame is unofficially
‘claimed’ by Tinder as a potential
user, solely by virtue of looking in
the bathroom mirror. In the bathroom, which can be a vulnerable
space for many people, a person
should be free of the danger of being fetishized as a consumer.

Tamim Sujat | The McGill Daily
The campaign also lacks respect for those for whom the advertisements might act as a trigger.
An individual who is a survivor of
sexual violence may not want their
image implicitly sexualized when
they glance into a mirror at school.
Somebody who is avoiding certain
expressions of sexuality for religious
or other lifestyle reasons may resent
being automatically placed in a stereotypical category of “experimental
college kids” who are gung-ho about

casual dating and sex. A person who
is anxious about their own physical appearance might feel excluded
from the superficiality which characterizes the app. Nobody should
be made to feel that their choices, or
their lifestyle, are sidelined, just by
entering a school bathroom.
In light of these considerations,
the public relations representatives
at Tinder who are responsible for
these advertisements should receive the following message.

For some people, it is clear that
your product enriches lives, however,
it does not seem appropriate that individuals on college campuses should
be associated with it simply by virtue
of looking into a mirror. The social
and sexual lives of students do not
need your endorsement.
Now stay out of our bathroom.
Lily Chapnik is a U2 student in
Jewish Studies and Music. Lily can be
reached at lily.chapnik@mail.mcgill.ca.

An open letter on the sexual assault policy

n February 26, 2014, the McGill administration hosted
a Forum on Consent, where
student panelists introduced a Sexual Assault Policy Proposal that the
undersigned campus groups have
endorsed. While we recognize the
recent efforts by the administration
to begin addressing rape culture
and sexual assault on campus, we
call upon you to carefully consider
our recommendations regarding a
Sexual Assault Policy and a Sexual
Assault Response Coordinator position as outlined below. Furthermore, we ask that you include the
undersigned in ongoing consultation in order to have a campusbased approach to the issue of
campus-based sexual violence, and
to treat this issue with the sense of
urgency it deserves.
This open letter and Policy
Proposal is a call to action in the
aftermath of the highly publicized
response to allegations of sexual
assault made against three varsity
football players at McGill University. Considering this case and oth-

ers at McGill (for example, the 2005
hazing), and in conjunction with
ongoing cases and administrative
responses on campuses across the
continent, it is clear that rape culture and sexual assault on our campus warrant a stronger response.
We envision the McGill administration having a crucial role in enacting change on our campus.
We are encouraged by the McGill
administration’s increasing attention
to issues of sexual assault on campus,
and the ongoing hiring process for
the Harm Reduction Coordinator, a
new position that will aim to improve
services relating to sexual violence
on campus. In an article in the McGill Reporter, Dean of Students André
Costopoulos stated that many aspects
of our Sexual Assault Policy Proposal
“exist already in various sections of
McGill policies and codes of conduct.”
Nevertheless, until comprehensive,
concrete services for survivors and
a formal Sexual Assault Policy have
been formalized, the administration’s
commitment to improvements will
remain an empty promise.

We are also disappointed by the
lack of consultation with relevant
campus groups, who have demonstrated a long-term commitment to
tackling the prevalence of sexual violence and rape culture in our community. This ongoing work has equipped
our groups with expertise in survivor
support and in the development of
pro-survivor policies regarding sexual violence on university campuses.
We therefore submit a Sexual Assault Policy Proposal as a proactive
step toward being heard regarding
initiatives to create a safer campus.
In light of the publicly expressed
commitments made by Costopoulos
and Ollivier Dyens, Deputy Provost (Student Life and Learning),
we urge the McGill administration
to adopt our Policy Proposal and to
incorporate our continuous input in
developing a university-wide Sexual
Assault Policy.
Our main recommendations
include:
• Developing a comprehensive, accessible, pro-survivor Sexual Assault Policy that takes a proactive,

rather than reactive, approach to
the problem of sexual assault and
rape culture on campus.
• Hiring a Sexual Assault Response
Coordinator who will work
closely with the signing parties,
provide safety measures and listening support for survivors, and
advocate for them. The Coordinator will also serve the community
through policy development and
campaigns targeting rape culture
on campus.
• Ensuring that the Policy applies to
all members of the McGill community; students, administration,
faculty, and all other employees.
• Including clearly articulated safety measures for building a safer
space on campus for survivors
and the community at large.
Given that, according to a study
by Students Active For Ending Rape,
and V-day, an activist movement to
end violence against girls and women, 83 per cent of the 299 universities surveyed had clearly outlined
disciplinary procedures regarding
sexual assault, and given the current

climate across Canadian campuses
pertaining to sexual assault, it is imperative that McGill promptly address its lack of a sexual assault policy and of institutionalized survivor
services. Let us be at the forefront of
universities worldwide, not only in
academia, but also in building safer
campus communities.
Community groups and members at large are invited to endorse
this policy at www.ipetitions.com/
petition/mcgill-community-for-asexual-assault-policy.
Signed,
The Students’ Society of McGill
University Executive, The Sexual
Assault Centre of the McGill Students’ Society, The Union for Gender
Empowerment, Queer McGill, The
Students’ Society of McGill University Equity Committee, The Feminist
Collective at McGill Law, Women and
the Criminal Law, Quebec Public Interest Research Group McGill.
This open letter was previously
published online at www.sexualassaultpolicyatmcgill.com.

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